House, eligibility of marriage for male!!??!!!
Sunday, October 13, 2013
Surprised to find a front page
advertisement in a leading English daily which states “He wants to marry my
daughter and doesn’t even own a house?".
That too, this advertisement was
issued by government funded housing finance corporation.
This seems to be the height of
commercialization. Is it to bring necessary pressure on public so that they
purchase a house?.
One cannot say ‘OWN’ a house as
advertisement claim, the reason being in
majority case, the house would have been purchased through debt and which mean one does not own the house
till the time the debt is completely serviced. Debt servicing could normally
take about 5~30 years depending on once repayment capability. Further, most likely these days in India it’s
a private sector job, which mean once job is always at stake and what if a
person looses the job and what if the hypothecated property is sold on auction
due to non - servicing of debt?
The advertisement
goes further to say “without tension of unpredictable rental accommodation”.
The irony is that with no security in job these days, one is not sure whether
the buyer would be in same place from young age till retirement. In fact, for some
reason after purchase of house, one wish to rent it, there is equal tension of
getting good prospective tenants without any issues year after year.
Again for argument sake what would happened if the
advertisement would had been like “She wants to marry my son and doesn’t even
own a house”, will the advertiser not be booked under dowry acts or a PIL filed in court?.
The Indian culture of humanness, belief, character, and
family background seems to be fading under materialism. I can only hope, such advertisement
may be stopped in the future.